Sexual intercourse is not a scene from pornographic films and has little to do with them. It is not surprising, therefore, that some men imitate phrases and movements from such scenes, which can cause great discomfort for women.
Rapid hip thrusting like a drill If a man forcefully thrusts his genitals into a woman and mimics the movements of a drill, he probably lacks experience in the bedroom, according to Claire Cavanah, co-author of the book ‘Moregasm: Babeland’s Guide to Mind-Blowing Sex. He may be rushing because he fears losing his erection or experiencing orgasm too quickly. It is recommended to adopt a slower rhythm that will bring more pleasure to the woman, adds the sexologist.
Boasting about the size of one’s tool A partner who declares during sexual intercourse that he has a huge sexual organ and expects the woman to confirm it will cool her off. Such a man is either arrogant or compensating for lack of confidence caused by the size of his genitals. If you are still interested in him, it is best to reassure him and acknowledge that his size is perfect for you, and then have a serious conversation with him, advises the sexologist.
Insisting on orgasm Some women may not reach climax every time they have sexual intercourse. Although achieving this goal is worthwhile, it is wrong to put pressure on one’s partner, and it will be particularly poorly received if one openly wonders why it has not been achieved yet.
Many women require clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm. If the usual techniques do not yield the desired results, with prior agreement in the bedroom, you can incorporate a vibrator or a similar toy, suggests the author.
Neglecting the clitoris Although the clitoris is often referred to as the magic button, some men avoid it during sexual intercourse. Provide your partner with a brief guide on the clitoris, revealing what touches suit you best. If a man avoids it, he should be shown the door because he is obviously not interested in female pleasure in the bedroom, warns Claire Cavanah.
Reaching for the phone seconds after climax In the past, women used to complain about men who would turn around and fall asleep in bed immediately after reaching climax. However, nowadays, there is an increasing number of individuals who, after sex, reach for their phones to check what’s new on social media. It would be best to remove phones from the bedroom and thus prevent such situations that can hurt women’s feelings. Reaching for the phone is only acceptable in emergency situations, concludes Dr. Cavanah.
