The topic of female sexual satisfaction is still shrouded in secrecy. While male climax has been extensively explored, mainly because it is directly related to procreation, female climax remains a taboo subject. Perhaps that’s why around 40 percent of women don’t experience orgasm during sex.
Research has confirmed that we are equally responsible for this statistic. Women have mental barriers and expectations for men to read their minds, while men lack proper communication, effort, and motivation.
However, men consider good sex to be when their partner is satisfied, and a new study has revealed a type of man that women deem the best in bed.
Why do women like “bad boys”?
Evolutionary biologists also refer to this type of man as hypermasculine. They are considered “more masculine” because they have an attitude, a certain demeanor, likely many bad habits, and numerous sexual partners. They can’t commit, they are narcissistic, and they never associate love and sex in the same sentence.
Bad boys are almost always winners in the psychological games we play according to their rules. Their primary motivation is to prove to a woman that they are excellent lovers rather than providing her with intimate satisfaction.
However, another science plays a significant role in this story, and that is biology.
It is entirely natural for women to be attracted to bad boys because they have higher testosterone levels, leading to boldness and emphasized sexuality. This type of man is rebellious and emotionally unavailable, and women think they are most attracted to them until they experience the bitterness of a broken heart, says Madeline A. Fugère, a psychology professor at Eastern Connecticut State University.
Women associate sex with emotions, so they will enjoy it the most with a man who makes them feel valued. A recent study published in the British Journal of Psychology suggests that women actually consider good guys to be better lovers.
Why are “good guys” better for female satisfaction?
The term “good guys” refers to gentlemen who seamlessly combine love and sex. They don’t have excessive sexual experience, and they never objectify women. Although they may lack testosterone and rebelliousness, women enjoy spending time with them, and they feel happier and more satisfied after sex.
Furthermore, men with less experience in bed tend to be more focused on female satisfaction and make more effort. Men tend to exaggerate the number of sexual partners they’ve had, but the research has shown that women consider honesty to be a more attractive virtue.
